| Location | Worcestershire |
| Age | 18 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 06/07/1988 |
| Date of Death | 17/08/2006 |
| Visitors | 32,022 since 05/03/2007 |
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A beautiful photo of my darling daughter..
I will forever hold you close and pray for the time we are together in body again..
Kel, you are beautiful, you're so so special and i am so so proud of you darling..
Love you honey..
xxxx
All my love hugs kisses and cuddles forever honey..
Forever
xxxx
Kelly was born on Wednesday 6th July at 9.44pm
She was tragically taken from us on the 17th August 2006
Kelly was 18 yrs and 6 weeks at the time of her being taken.. Kelly was driving home on the 17th
August at 9am.. She was coming home and we were going to collect her A Level results.. Kelly's
beautiful life was soo cruelly torn away from her..
We all love you honey, you'll be in our hearts forever
xxxx
Every minute of the day I am talking in my head to Kelly, she is my constant thought, wish and
dream.. I recall memories from her as a tiny baby, her first smile, chuckle, word, favourite food,
crawl, and stumbling walk.. To an enquiring toddler who could dictate the phonetic alphabet at the
age of 3 and wanted something to do at every given moment..
Kelly had a Wendy house, one of those that you fix together with plastic poles, an I remember her
clutching her cup and her milk in a bottle and trotting off to her Wendy House to make cups of tea..
She’d tip the milk from her bottle and the juice from her cup into her little tea set and would
hand it out to whoever was visiting at the time.. Kelly, at the age of only18 months was such a
hospitable little girl.. ( I have photo’s of her trotting to her wendy house to make these
concoctions of tea)
When Kelly was 20 months, she had a little brother, she wanted to help hold him, bathe him, and feed
him.. Though Kelly wasn’t the only child anymore, it didn’t become a problem.. To Kelly,
looking back, I think it was something else for her to explore..
Kelly and Max.. they were so close.. Not only in age, but everything.. If Kelly was in the
garden, Max would be in hot pursuit, if Kelly was sat with me, an we were reading a book, or
watching one of the Disney videos Max would be at her side.. When we went out with friends and their
children, Kelly and Max would be together.. A group of children were always around.. If you
could spot Kelly, you’d know Max would be at her side.. Wherever we went, whatever we did,
they’d be together.. Kelly had Barbie, Max had action men, though Max was more interested in
Barbie.. (some things don’t change)..
November 1991 Kelly had a little sister.. I’d bathe Naomi, Kelly would bathe her doll.. I’d
feed Naomi, Kelly would put her doll under her jumper to feed it too.. I’d change Naomi’s
nappy, and Kelly would turn away- she didn’t like that part of pretending to be a mum.. I
remember Naomi being asleep in her mosis basket this one time and me being out of the room, on my
return Kelly had climbed up, picked Naomi up and had her on her lap.. I couldn’t quite believe
that she’d managed to do this- and Naomi had slept through the whole experience.. Kelly was only
4 and a half at the time, and though she went to ballet, she wasn’t the most agile, as any other
child of this age.
As a little school girl I remember her being so excited at what had been taught that day and from
the moment I’d collect her from school there would be a bombardment of questions.. Who, what,
where and why were at the top of her vocabulary..
I have each and every school report from 1993 to this year..
Some of the comments from her first teacher were as follows;
“Kelly is a quiet class member with an amusing sense of humour. She is always polite and
well-behaved. She works well and produces work of a high standard”….
Kelly had a competitive nature, and liked to do well in all that she did.. She was never arrogant
about her ability and would get embarrassed with praise when I ‘bigged her up’ in front of
people.
Kelly never, ever gave me cause for concern throughout her education. She loved to learn and to be
taught..
I can remember us going on holiday for the first time to Tenerife, with Kelly’s Nan, Kelly was
nearly 6. Max and Nomi would be off with the rubber rings, buckets and spades and Kelly would also
want to play with them for a while.. She’d find shells or pebbles and make patterns with them,
(maybe this was the start of the pebble fetish)??but then she’d want to read, or draw pictures..
More often than not, Kelly would have her head in a book.. Wherever we went, whatever we did,
she’d want to learn..
Whilst on this holiday Kelly sang on a Karaoke for the first time.. She was so cute, she sang a
song by the Carpenters- Close to You.. The words in this song are so poignant, and each and every
time I listen to this song, it reminds me of her singing it, beautiful, confident, yet so small,
with such an angelic voice..
Kelly was so methodical in all that she did. She’d keep all the little ticket stubs from all the
places we visited, Zoos, Theme parks and cinemas. Kelly would want to keep anything that would
remind her of a place we or she’d been to, and always put her memorabilia somewhere safe. Kelly
has ticket stubs from concerts that she went to, the places she visited in Rome, the tickets saved
off gifts that she’d received.. Anything and everything meant something to her..
When we moved to Ryall I can remember Kelly walking into her bedroom for the first time and ripping
the wallpaper off the walls.. it was Ghost Busters, and she didn’t want it on.. Before we’d
even unpacked the lorry and moved everything into our home, Kelly had more or less stripped her
whole bedroom.. She always knew what she wanted, and never left things that needed to be done..
She got on, and did it, no matter what..
When Kelly became an adolescent the hair changed colour.. (as did the attitude) I can remember her
asking me to dye it for her, and she’d said that it wasn’t permanent and that it wasn’t as
dark as it seemed on the packaging.. I helped dye her hair, and remember getting it everywhere..
Kelly had it all over her neck, ears and forehead.. She spent hours trying to scrub it off with all
sorts of solutions..
Kelly had many friends at the time, quite a few were boys and many a time she’d be chatting to
them outside her bedroom window.. I can remember her first boyfriend and giving the ‘I hope you
aren’t doing anything that you shouldn’t be doing’ chat.. Kelly was quite embarrassed about
this and did fret that I’d do the same again with future boyfriends.. but it didn’t stop them
coming round, I think maybe Kelly warned them that I was a bit of an ogre and to ignore anything I
said..
Kelly had her first little job at the age of 14.. I can remember going with her for the interview
and talking for her to the landlord.. Kelly overcame being shy and worked as a waitress in a pub
within Upton.
I can remember going there for a meal and Kelly serving us.. I’d watch her scurrying around from
table to table, and always being so polite.. Kelly was only 14, she worked so hard for anything
that she wanted.. She didn’t ever expect anything to be handed to her, she had a bit of
independence and loved it..
Kelly always had a little part time job from this age, she went from being a waitress, to a
domestic, to a shop assistant.. Kelly would never think of giving it up and bumming around.. she
was always so responsible..
Kelly was looking forward to life after 6th Form.. She’d decided that she’d like to go to
University and she had told me that Linda and Kelly had many discussions about her future and what
it would hold.. I know that Kelly confided in Linda a lot, and that Linda, plus other teachers held
a special place within her heart..
During the summer, Kelly had mentioned that she may have a year out, to work and save. She’d also
said that if she didn’t get the results she needed she’d apply again the following year.. Kelly
was never fazed by anything.. She planned for everything, and would always think of what she could
do if things didn’t go according to plan..
Kelly is the most precious, caring, hard working, loving person I know. As Kelly grew from a tiny
baby, a toddler, a little school girl, an adolescent, a beautiful young lady and my best friend my
love grew too.. This will always be, my love for Kelly will never stop..
We don’t have my wonderful daughter to look up to in body, to admire, to love and be loved by..
Kelly’s future, her dreams and aspirations have been so cruelly torn from her.. I yearn every
moment of everyday for her to be home and living the life that she so much loved and enjoyed..
I’d do anything for her to be here with us. Anything..
But what we do have, is each and everyone of our cherished memories.. And I, like I’m sure all of
you, will hold on to her through these, forever.. Kelly will live in my heart and mind through
everything we do.. She will be at our sides, and we’ll smile at the wonderful, beautiful memories
that she has given us.. We will always miss her, and wish she was here as we are.. But again,
though we may not be able to see or touch her, she will live in our hearts forever..
Thank you so, so much Kelly, for making me the happiest proudest mum in the world.. I love you so
much.. Thank you for everything honey..
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Our thoughts are ever with you
Though you have passed away.
And those who loved you dearly
Are thinking of you today.
For Monday
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Everyday in some small way
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are always near
Still missed, loved and always dear.
For Tuesday
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Thinking of you.XXX
Next to you
You cannot see or touch me
But I'm standing next to you.
Your tears will only hurt me,
Your sadness makes me blue.
Be brave and show a smiling face
Let not your grief show through.
I love you from a different place,
Yet I'm standing next to you.
Tribute For This Weekend
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Hug Is The Perfect Drug
No moving parts, no batteries.
No monthly payments and no fees;
Inflation proof, non-taxable,
In fact, it’s quite relaxable;
It can’t be stolen, won’t pollute,
One size fits all, do not dilute.
It uses little energy,
But yields results enormously.
Relieves your tension and your stress,
Invigorate your happiness;
Combats depression, makes you beam,
And elevates your self esteem!
Your circulation it corrects
Without unpleasant side effects
It is, I think, the perfect drug:
May I prescribe, my friend… the hug!
And, of course, fully returnable!
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I’m sorry you are hurting
But there’s nothing I can do
I’m watching you from up above
I wish you weren’t so blue
If there was anything
That I could do or say
I take away your pain
I’d make it go away
I know you cannot see me
But please be rest assured
I’m by your side every day
And I can hear what you say
I love you too and miss you more
But please do not be sad
I want to see you smile again
I don’t want you to feel bad
You see I know something now
I did not know before
I’m in a place where we will meet
And be together for ever more
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♥ A SHINING STAR ♥
When I had to leave you
I didn't go too far
Look up to the Heavens
I’m a Brilliant shining star
May this light show you
As it glistens from above
A very special thank~you
When you lifted me with love
A little star that brightly shines
A star that’s free from pain
Held gently in God's loving arms
Until we meet again
As you go on your journey
Be the best that you can be
And know that God is there for you
As he is here for me
When we miss each other
And what each other near
You shine your light upon the earth
And I'll shine my light up here
So we will always remember
When we seem so far apart
To shine our lights together
With love upon our hearts
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If Heaven Had A Phone
I cannot dial your number,
I can't get through to you,
I called the operator,
She did all that she could do.
There is no code for heaven,
I cannot place the call,
No numbers left to call,
I reckon I've tried them all.
If heaven had a phone,
I'd ring you every day,
If heaven had a phone,
There's things I want to say.
To tell you that I love you,
And miss you every day,
How much I prayed to god,
That he could let you stay.
If heaven had a phone,
I'd ring you every day,
If heaven had a phone,
I'd hear your voice, know you're okay,
I just want to speak to heaven,
Please do you have a direct line,
Operator says no number,
But your loved one says they're doing fine.
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If we could only speak to you,
And hold your loving hand,
No matter what we said or did,
We know you’d understand.
FOR WEDNESDAY
Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.
FOR THURSDAY
Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Proud Mum
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THANKS A MILLION!!!!
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The last two weeks have been very difficult
for us as a family, it was Christopher’s
Birthday & Angel Anniversary within 2 days
of each other on the Monday My Father-in-Law celebrated his 81st Birthday sadly on the Tuesday he passed away. The day before what would have been Christopher’s 32nd Birthday
I would like to take this opportunity to thank each
and everyone of you that left messages, candles,
tributes, gifts & photographs on Christopher’s website I read every single one.
You are all truly kind, special, amazing, thoughtful and a wonderful bunch of people that have taken the time to make me feel better when you are all dealing with your own private grief.
Thanks again
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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I Love And Miss You Son
The golden gates stood open
God saw you needed rest,
His garden must be beautiful
He only takes the best
I love you Son
I miss you Son
I think of you Son
You will always be with me.
Wherever I go,
Whatever I do
My day always
Starts and ends with you.
The hardest thing in life to bear,
Is to want your Son and he's not there.
Sorry Son that I still weep
For you I longed to love and keep.
FOR MONDAY
If I Could Travel Back In Time
If I could travel back in time
For maybe just one day,
To talk to you and laugh with you
Before you went away.
I wonder what you'd think of me
And all the things I've done;
If you'd see the child you knew
In the woman I've become.
The memories I have of you
Are fading now and few.
I walk familiar streets to tread
On pavements you walked too.
We never got to say goodbye
All those years ago,
I was too young to understand
You were too ill, and so...
If I could travel back in time
For maybe just one day,
I'd say these words, "I love you Dad"
Before you went away.
FOR TUESDAY
Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Proud Mum
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Sorry.
Dear Kelly,
Please forgive me not lighting your candles this week,its not been the best of weeks.But it doesnt mean you havent been in my thoughts. You will never be forgotten beautiful Kelly.xxxxxxxx
Dear All,
As this is going to be a difficult week for our family I am lighting the candles & tribute for this week today.
I want to make sure all your angels don’t miss out on the candles and tributes I hope you all understand
I will be back on Sunday with Monday’s candle
It would have been Christopher’s Birthday on Wednesday, he was on his way home from having a drink to celebrate his 27th Birthday when the accident happened and sadly he died 2 days later.
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In our hearts your memory lingers
Sweetly tender, fond and true,
There is not a day, dear angel
That we do not think of you.
For Mon
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We know that you're beside us,
In everything we do,
But life's just not the same
Now that we've lost you
For Tues
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Things I feel most deeply
Are the hardest things to say
My dearest one, I love you
In a very special way
For Wed
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Your life was a blessing
Your memory a treasure
You are loved beyond words
And missed beyond measure
For Thur
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Tribute For The Weekend
I'm sending a dove to heaven
With a parcel on its wings.
Be careful how you open it
It’s full of beautiful things
Inside are a million kisses
Wrapped up in a million hugs
To say how much you mean to us
And send you all our love
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Babies are angels
That fly to earth
Their wings disappear
At the time of there birth
One look in their eye
And we're never the same
They're part of us now
And that part has a name
That part is your heart
And a bond that won’t sever
Our babies are angels
And we love them forever
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It happens without warning
Time and time again
I go along and join the flow
But still remember when
You were there to share it all
That made it all worth while
The memories keep flooding back
And once again I smile
Then reality returns to me
And once again your gone
If only this little dream I have
Could simply just go on
I try and hide the heartache
But I feel it none the less
These are my words I send to you
I MISS YOU……..
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Just the average family
We didn't ask for more.
Then life was changed completely
With that knock upon our door.
This awful thing had happened
And none of us knew why.
You were never coming back again
And we didn't say goodbye.
Our world just fell to pieces
We cried with disbelief.
We had to stick together
To overcome our grief.
We'll never understand it
It all seems so unfair.
We wish we'd hear that knock again
And see you standing there.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
2ND MAY 2009
† NEVER FORGOTTEN.†
† You are the Angel who I cherish,
† So dearly in this heart of mine,
† The one who makes my day brighter,
† By making my whole world shine.
† During all the darkest moments,
† When my skies turn cloudy and grey,
† You're the one who touches my heart,
† And makes everything seem okay.
♡
LOVE JUDE. X X
♡
I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me.
- Author unknown
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19TH APRIL 2009
♥ May green be the grass you walk on,
♥ May blue be the skies above you,
♥ May pure be the joys that surround you,
♥ May true be the hearts that love you.
♥ May your home be bright with cheer,
♥ May your cares all disappear,
♥ May contentment come your way,
♥ And may laughter fill your day.
♥ WISHING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY A PEACEFUL SUNDAY.
GOD BLESS, LOVE JUDE. X ♥
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